OK at last I've seen my car. it looks very good in the metal. Better than good.
The list above proves to be accurate. Except for the stars .... I got stars. ALL over items have as predicted and rumoured, failed to materialise.
Am I happy? Actually yes in the main. The dealership and manufacturer support that I previously criticised (quite a few times), has in fairness been totally turned around. An opportunity to have a honest and balanced discussion with a decision maker proved fruitful. Since then it's been a really solid experience. and generous experience. Actually I really cannot say enough about that. Night and day.
What does start to become evident is that the support to dealer info wise is not well evolved and slow. This puts them out in the flat field with little cover. Also in our particular circumstance, whilst we have been critical about comfort factors, it is fair to say we have always been in something of a rush and not exactly providing the best platform to be made feel just a little special.
But the focus of this thread is what did you expect (hard product) and what did you get. To help other buyers get the reality that took me a lot of leg work and tapping to get. So the list still stands. But definitely I'm feeling a lot more connected with the dealership and experience.